My cousin's wife is fighting cancer. He shared this. The person in crisis is in the center. The person they are most connected to in the first ring. Now draw a larger circle around the first one. In that ring put the name of the person next closest to the trauma. Repeat the process as many times as you need to. In each larger ring put the next closest people.
If you need to complain or offer advice give it to someone in a circle larger than yours. Only comfort goes to those in circles smaller than yours.
