So how does this relate to pancakes? Following a recipe is much like following the commandments. It is important to know what the goal is... to make yummy tasting pancakes. (It would also be nice if they were a bit healthy too.) The checklist of commandments are like the directions in the recipe. It is really important that you put in 2 eggs, not 20. Adding the baking powder before the salt is not really important, but both need added.
So, in conclusion, when making pancakes and when loving, we can follow the rules to obtain the goal. We must not forget that the rules are not the goal. The commandments of God are the means to become like him, and since he is love, love must be the goal.
LDS.org - Ensign Article - The Love of God
Try to learn of God: read the scriptures; study the words of His latter-day prophets; choose to listen to the Father, and do the things He asks of us. ...lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&locale=0... -